Started playing before I knew what Elite Dangerous was - my late husband tried to cheer me up after some bad news (I was denied Naval re-entry). So on his Playstation, he had me try to what later I knew to be docking - try to fly a ship through the mail slot, find the landing pad, and play the game of darts to land on the pad. All before the timer runs out. I did it, with about 5 min to spare. It worked, and the spark was ignited.
Started watching CrispyTaytorTot and CaptainFlint on Twitch, trying to understand this game Leo called his "space trucking game." So, he bought it for me, and we started playing together. I hated hauling, but I love the graphics and depth of the game. I joined Aisling's Angels BGS/PMF, and started to learn what BGS was, and how Influence worked.
Later came the "Lava Vent Incident" which really solidified the game, and the community as a whole. Here I was on the way to Colonia from the Bubble in an unengineered Imperial Courier, with a max jump range of 15.02Ly. I'm not going anywhere, fast. Odyssey just got a new lighting update, so I went down to get a few pictures of lava vents. They're photographic.
I landed too close.
SRV was in the ship.
Ship went boom.
I'm stranded. In an Artemis suit, about 10,000Ly from help.
Live on Twitch.
The call went out - "CMDR stranded between Colonia and the Bubble". CMDR Yerisan rolled out of bed, and was the first to get to me. (His Girlfriend was not happy at the time). Yeri got me back to the bubble, where all data could be turned in, and I could rebuy my ship.
Then he said "hop in, I'm going to show you something." It was a Thargoid. He took me to show me a THARGOID. I did not know this was even in the game, nonetheless why he was shooting it.
Since then, the community around the game has been a big factor. Ask, and you'll get help. If you get help and do the stupid anyway, you are not spared the consequences. The community holds everyone accountable, just as in game. The learning cliffs are steep and tall. The detail in the game is vast. Yes, there are things that could help improve the game such as instance stability, graphic smoothness, and menu bug fixes, but the depth and the choice of activities is what keeps me coming back. Want to play on your own? Go solo. Want friends? Play PG. Want an open world? Play Open.
Sometimes I just hop in and go off either exploring or mining (normally exploration) and it's like fishing. I can go and turn my mind off, still cataloguing and getting information through EDMC and other plug-ins to complete the player database.