The most painful EVE Online in-game losses come in a variety of forms. From rookie mistakes and errors you've since learned from to situations that were completely unavoidable and out of your hands, we recently asked our community of capsuleers to regale us with their tales of loss. After all, the many successes you've all had in EVE Online wouldn't be anywhere near as impactful without these lessons learned and hardships experienced.

So without further ado, let's dive into your stories of loss in EVE Online and the lessons learned from them.

"One more stinking cap charge"

First up, we have Rixx Javix, who is one of our most experienced and longstanding EVE Online players. He claims to have "over 3,000 losses," but has detailed one that he describes as "remaining in my thoughts every time I undock, and has changed the way I fly ever since". This scenario takes place over a decade ago in an event called the NEO tournament, broadcast by CCP themselves… and Rixx calls it "the worst - and best - match ever recorded". We'll let him take it away:

"To set the stage, I was the FC (Fleet Commander) and I was flying the anchor ship: the mighty Machariel. I will also tell you that I had never flown a Machariel before, barely knew how one should be fitted, and had only recently trained the skills needed to fly one. All of which I learned in the hour before the match. And, in my haste, I decided it would be a good idea to load the cargo with as much ammo as possible. I kept balancing ammo with cap charges, over and over again. More ammo means less cap charges. More cap charges means less ammo. In the end it came down to one less cap charge and a little more ammo.

"Fozzie did get one thing wrong; they had drones on me at the end. Otherwise, I should have lived. As the damage kept coming in and it was obvious we would win, I did everything I could think of to save my ship. I'm overheating everything and managing my range, still pouring DPS into the enemy. Luckily I had more than enough ammo.

"But I had one less cap charge than I needed. One stinking additional cap charge and I would have survived. Instead, at the worst possible moment, I didn't.

"The majority of my losses in EVE are from trying to save my corp mates, or being on the wrong side of the rock, paper, scissors equation: wrong place, wrong time. But this one simply came down to a small mistake in cargo management.

"And that is a lesson I have carried with me every day since."

A shiny new toy… aaaaand it's gone

Next up is iBeast, who experienced what any veteran capsuleer would rightly describe as heartbreaking. This story took place during a wormhole conflict, as while roaming through C6 systems looking for PvP engagements, their group discovered a fleet "preparing for the timer". It features some battle mismanagement and a very expensive ship biting the dust.

"Battles in wormhole space usually happen in such a way that different groups do not show each other all their ships at once, so the battle escalates as time goes on.

"That's exactly what we did. If you analysed our approach, we closed a lot of corners and were poised to react to any enemy manoeuvre, including any new ships entering the battlefield. Due to the limited mass of the wormhole, we planned to only use the dreadnought (capital ships) on the battlefield if our opponents used too many ships for us to deal with.

"The start of the battle went well, we started a very smooth escalation as more enemy ships appeared, but at some point the situation changed dramatically and everything happened in a matter of minutes. At the enemy's citadel, their ships almost doubled in number, way beyond the worst case scenario we predicted. At the same time, they began to very actively block wormholes, which we entered with the help of interdictors.

"We initially thought our opponent was trying to just escape while minimising their losses, so to prevent that, we sent our dreadnought to battle. Naturally, the dreadnought was caught and could not warp onto the battlefield.

"Meanwhile, our fleet continued to survive in battle. The balance of power was absolutely not in our favour, but we managed to stay alive and not lose anything… although we also didn't destroy anything, either. Eventually, our dreadnought was caught and the enemy began to undock more ships.

"The dreadnought was key to our success due to how much damage it can deal. I managed to dispatch the ships holding the dreadnought, but due to my absence from the main battle, we started losing ships in combat. As soon as I called out that our dreadnought was in warp, our FC instructed us to retreat.

"When my dreadnought finally arrived, there were only a few of our ships left on the battlefield, and unfortunately, the rest is history.

"The absurdity of the situation is that if things had transpired a couple of seconds earlier, we could have tried to fight where my dreadnought was, but what actually happened was a cross warp.

"There were a lot of factors in the situation: we didn't correctly analyze the situation, underestimated the enemy's readiness, and paid little attention to the defense of our entrance. With a competent approach we could have won a very difficult battle, where the odds were stacked against us.

"Our enemy must have been ecstatic. They won the battle, most of their enemy fled, then a minute later, a dreadnought I bought only an hour before the fight arrived as a parting gift…"

3.2B down the drain

 FUN INC has recalled the time they lost a flagship Barghest during an Alliance Tournament in exactly 32 seconds, which takes place at 05:53:26 in the above VOD:

"It's not a long story, to be fair. It was over in under a minute and despite our best endeavours, we lost to Lazerhawks who were a very respectable team.

"To date, it's my biggest loss in EVE Online, costing me approximately 3.2 billion ISK. Despite what everyone says, no amount of extra purple would have gotten me through the assault. Sure, it may have bought me an extra few seconds, but the outcome would always have been the same. A full ten-player wipe in under five minutes always adds to the pain too.

"This knocked us out of AT19, but I still rate the experience a ten out of ten. Would do it again!"

From predator to bait

Herons are traditionally top-of-the-foodchain predators in the real world and they don't typically act as bait, but in EVE Online, it’s more often the opposite. Kshal Aideron has detailed the time they fell for a trap and lost their Astero in the process:

"I run a YouTube series called Solo Hunter, in which I journal my solo hunting while learning the ropes of PvP in EVE Online. I was on a pretty good run hunting down Ventures and exploring frigates in my Astero, until one day that luck ran out.

"One thing I struggled to learn when solo PvPing was to put my safety on yellow in Lowsec. As an incursion Fleet Commander, my safety is always green when travelling with my fleet, and when flying in Null or Wormhole Space, my safety is irrelevant. But remembering to put it to yellow in Lowsec was something I couldn't get into the habit of."The day I finally lost my Astero, which had many kill marks, was when I found a lone Heron. The idea that something might be bait is always in the back of my mind, but so's the idea that it might not be. In this case, it was. And since my safety was set to green, I couldn't lock it in and grab it.

"The Heron's buddies came, locked me up, and killed me. It wasn't the value of the Astero that made it painful, it was because if I hadn't changed my safety to yellow, I'd have been able to kill the Heron with ease, and maybe I'd still be flying my Astero today."

It's more than a game

There's something about EVE Online that non-EVE players just don't understand, and that's the fact that for the most dedicated capsuleers, this is far more than just a game. The complexity of the mechanics and the ever-evolving universe, complete with player relationships and dynamics make for an experience like no other. So when that all goes pear shaped and you lose years of hard work, it's tough to bounce back from that.

This is exactly what happened to AlexGoesTheWorld, who explains they lost most of their assets and their "home away from home", but worse than that, they lost their "poetry for EVE", explaining it was "never the same again". Here's their tale, lest any of you make the same mistakes:

"My corp had built a small home, made of multiple stations, tucked away in the depths of Wormhole Space. However, our activity had declined steadily over the years and by the time the incident happened, you'd rarely find two people online at the same time. We were pretty much independent, but that also meant we had assets there. Having that many stations and assets also made us sitting ducks.

"Eventually, someone noticed. It was a player who held a grudge against our corp due to a fight in the same system a few years before. That’s a long time to hold a grudge, but I digress. The combination of next-to-no activity, multiple stations, and this player's lust for vengeance was the perfect recipe for disaster… and in disaster it ended.

"I wasn't even there when things fell as it happened when I was fast asleep, but not being there didn't make it any easier to deal with. Sure, I saved my two most precious ships thanks to a friend who kept a spot for me in their cargo, sacrificing one of their own ships in the process despite it being more expensive, but I lost something that day that I never got back. That was far more precious than any ships or assets."

So long, Stratios

Sometimes, you're just in the wrong place at the wrong time. That's what happened to Nth Dimensional when they were soaring through a region "known for its hostile factions," but most importantly in this story, its "unpredictable storms." They explain they've always been a "skilled pilot, particularly when it came to the Stratios," but this occasion was different. Take it away, Nth:

"As I entered the system, the scanner lit up with warnings about a massive storm brewing ahead. I brushed it off; I had navigated through worse before. But this storm was different. The moment I crossed into its turbulent embrace, I felt my ship shudder. Systems flickered, and I realised with growing dread that my cloaking device was malfunctioning.

"Panic surged through me. I tried to change course, but the storm was relentless, its winds howling and sensors spinning out of control. My heart raced as I spotted hostile ships on my radar, their signatures glowing ominously against the chaos. They were drawn in by the disturbance my Stratios was causing.

"Desperate to evade them, I tried to engage my cloaking device again, but it sputtered and failed completely. The storm's electromagnetic interference was too strong. I slammed the controls, engaging my afterburners in a frantic attempt to outrun the incoming threats. But it was no use; the storm had me trapped.

"One by one, the enemy ships closed in. I fought with everything I had, but the odds were stacked against me. My shields began to crumble under the relentless barrage of fire. I could see my hull integrity plummeting, and in that moment of desperation, I knew I was losing my grip.

"As the explosions engulfed my Stratios, I ejected in my Virtue Pod, a sinking feeling washing over me. I looked down at my pod, which was worth as much as my lost ship, and tried to activate the warp drive to escape. But the storm had other plans. I was snagged in the chaos, unable to warp away.

"The last thing I saw was the incoming fire converging on me, and the realisation hit hard—I had just lost four billion ISK worth of ship and gear. As I drifted in the storm, a cautionary tale in the making, I couldn’t help but feel the weight of my mistakes.

"From that day on, I made it my mission to share my story, warning others about the unpredictable storms that could cost even the mightiest pilot everything."

The Abyss giveth, the Abyss taketh

The Abyssal Deadspace, commonly known as the Abyss, is where Dydo used to spend most of their time in EVE Online. They explain that while they're "not the most daring pilot", the "thrill of the hunt and the risk of losing it all" is what kept them coming back to this dangerous, loot-filled area of space. Unfortunately, the risk of losing it all provides some expected foreshadowing. Here's Dydo reliving their experience:

"I was growing comfortable with the Abyss, but one day everything changed. A swarm of coercers obliterated my beloved ship, the culmination of hours of research and ISK investment, and it was gone in seconds.

"The loss was emotionally devastating because it felt like all my progress and the joy experienced on the journey had vanished in an instant. It wasn't just about the ship, ISK or my pride... the freedom to explore the Abyss and the sense of accomplishment, before, during, and after the adventure were now gone. I felt trapped, unable to enjoy the parts of the game I loved the most.

"What do you do with that feeling? Do you take a step back and reassess your approach, or do you brush it off and dive back in Abyss? The loss itself didn't break me, I've gotten over it now but it did leave me feeling adrift for a while."

The clone wars

Hunter's tale of loss spans multiple sessions, during a period when they were still learning how the game works. They explained that they considered quitting because "it felt like a job," but there was one aspect of the game that had them hooked: exploration. They trained their clone up in exploration and sent it out hunting for sites to loot. Here's the rundown of how this ended in catastrophe:

"I sent my clone to Highsec, Lowsec, Nullsec, and wormhole systems, exploring for hours in sessions just jumping, scanning, and hacking. I'd loot what I could then jump to the next site without securing my loot, which was a huge mistake. I became a moving investment and a promising target: a new player with half a billion ISK at one point.

"I eventually started parking my ship in the void in Wormhole Space until my next session. Imagine my stress when I learned that not only do the wormhole entrance and exit disappear after a while, those systems can also have player corporations. So I started looking for a way out, but each time I'd end up in dangerous areas of space. I'd spam the D-scan constantly, looking for a safe escape route, before giving up and parking my ship in a safe spot with the hopes a wormhole would spawn next time.

"After a number of days, I started to think my clone was cursed to never make it home, on the run for the rest of its life. That is until the very last time I was going to scan for wormholes, I saw some player combat probes on the D-scan. Finally, I thought I could intentionally lose the fight and respawn in the Jita system, but then it hit me: almost a billion's ISK worth of items would be lost in the process. My greed took over and I tried to escape the gank.

"Faster than lightning, I found another wormhole and tried to go through it. Everything seemed fine initially, but on the other end was Nullsec space with a party consisting of multiple ships waiting to enter. Almost immediately, my clone was floating in space, no capsule in sight.

"It was painful, I was angry, but at the end of the day, that's EVE Online. We all have something to lose as capsuleers, and I lost money."

Money isn't everything

While losing a ship worth millions and cargo in the billions can be a traumatic experience, it's not the only type of painful in-game loss. orik Kado wants to stress that with the tale of when they lost a ship they were very attached to:

"From the moment I started playing EVE Online, I only wanted to mine. The first logical step was to train for mining barges and then start working towards command ships. Once I had the necessary skills, I built my first Porpoise. For several days, I focused on mining all the required materials until I could finally craft it.

"Since 2018, that ship, which I built entirely on my own, accompanied me on many adventures throughout my time in different corporations. It played an important role in my growth as a player.

"Unfortunately, in November 2022, I was caught while traveling with my Porpoise to another system. Despite trying my best to defend it, its equipment wasn’t enough, and in just a few seconds, my journey came to an end before a formidable enemy.

"Its ISK value is negligible, but that day, a piece of my character's story was destroyed. And even though I can now build as many ships as I like, none will replace the story of my first Porpoise."

Thera claims another victim

As many of our community will know, Thera is a dangerous system in EVE Online, and Amoni P ignored everything in the back of their mind telling them not to risk travelling there. As a result, they faced the consequences: losing five billion ISK. How, you may ask? Here's their story:

"This story takes place in my farm, which for those unaware, is a wormhole system used purely to make money. I had wrapped up running sites and I was looking to sell my blue loot. The problem was that I could not find a connection to K-space. I rolled my static several times and I just couldn't get a good connection. I needed Jita, Amarr, or anywhere where I could offload this blue loot but nothing was coming up.

"Just as I was about to call it a day and leave it for another time, I found a Thera connection. Thera is so dangerous it's an absurd amount of risk to haul something worth 5 billion ISK through there. There's any number of things that could go wrong. Someone could put up a drag bubble, the connection might die before I get to it, there might be a camp, or some combination of all of that resulting in me losing my DST full of goodies.

"But I was desperate. I had been rolling for almost two hours just trying to get a good connection, and I was having the worst luck a person could have. This Thera felt like a lifeline after all that. I had a nullifier to get through bubbles, I had a warp core stabiliser which meant it would take two scrams, four points, or some combination of four warp disruptions to keep my ship from warping... I could do this. I talked myself into it. I told myself this was doable and the risk was acceptable.

"So I did it. Initially, there wasn't anyone on my side and nothing was showing up on D-scan. I just needed to MWD cloak trick this and pop the nullifier and... Uh-oh, did I hit the nullifier before I entered warp or after? If it was after, then the nullifier won't do a lick of good. Thera is something like 200+ AUs across. That's a long time to sweat it out as I try to remember whether I hit the nullifier at the right time. 

"I start to land and my worst fears are waiting for me. It's a four-person camp on the wormhole with a bubble to stop ships short of reaching it. It's not a great camp, but it's enough. This is when I learned that I must have hit the nullifier after entering warp. There's about 16km between me and that damn wormhole. Maybe I can make it? Overheat the MWD and pray to Thor for protection. Pray to Odin for strength and courage against impossible odds. Pray to Tyr for the sheer gall I had to even try. Pray to Loki for a little cosmic shenanigans.

"But it was not on the gods to save me. I put myself in this situation. It took all of 45 seconds for them to whittle me down and all that loot went up in smoke. Then they podded me to Jita for good measure. 

"How had I been so foolish? How did I talk myself into that? It was stupid. I teach classes at EVE University and tell people all the time how dangerous Thera is and not to take valuable stuff through Thera and... and... it's gone. All my work for the last week and half or so is gone. Down the drain in an act of self-delusion and hubris. RIP me."

There we have it, our collection of the most painful losses in EVE Online, as told by our community of experienced capsuleers. Do you have any additional stories to tell? Let us know in the comments below, and you can also share the lessons you've learned from reading these tales. We’ve got more EVE lessons learned the hard way too.

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