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I used to photograph (and hang out with) rockbands...

I also interview game developers on the regular.

I honestly think "celebrity" is contextual... If you were to put me in front of some random "celebrity", I wouldn't be phased... If however you put me in front of someone who I actually admired / respected, then that's a different story.

What is a "celebrity"? A famous person. And what are they famous for?

Once you can figure out as to whether a "celebrity" is famous for something that you can admire, then that's when it can daunting. But honestly, as someone who interviews "celebrities" (ie game developers) on a regular basis, it's actually not that bad.

Most "celebrities" are just normal people who happen to be really good at something. And to be honest, we all can be "celebrities" if we really want to be. We just have to apply ourselves in a certain pursuit.

Boomer's avatar

Depending on how they seem I'm all for a respectful hello 👋

If they're out with family or look super busy then I'd leave them to it, but if they're just casually strolling along I might say hi.

I nearly met Andy Serkis at Develop earlier this year.

He walked right past me as I stepped out the front door of my hotel. He had a look that said I see you've recognised me as he carried on up the street, but I wasn't 100% so I didn't say anything. When I checked LinkedIn later on I saw mutual connections had posted selfies with him on the beach! 😆

CelestialFlea's avatar

Never really met anyone famous but it would depend entirely on the circumstances. If they're out with their families or just having lunch somewhere stands to reason they'd probably want to be left alone. Just because they're celebrities it doesn't mean they don't have a right to privacy or owe fans a damn thing.

I would leave them be in those kinds of settings but maybe if I saw them at an airport or walking about the streets and didn't look like they were doing anything, I'd have no qualms with approaching them. Probably a good idea to try to have a conversation with them first to try to gauge their mood to see if they might be open to a selfie or autograph rather than asking them flat out.

Mark Hamill can fluff off if he thinks I'm paying $400 though 🤣

Tldr; treat celebs the way you'd want to be treated yourself.

FirestormGamingTeam's avatar

So we were just discussing this on Discord, my story.

We had just finished having a Mcdonald's as we had taken the kids to London and we walked past a fairly upmarket restaurant with an outside seating area and we saw Mel Gibson sat there with some people and I really wanted to go say hello.

My wife nudged me and said, go, just ask, I shook my head no and said he was with people and he caught my eye and had obviously noticed the exchange between me and my wife. He actually waved me over and I went over to him and he said "Too nervous to come over?" I said "Not exactly, I was just worried this was your family and did not want to intrude" and he said "I like fans like you, how about we have a picture" his friend took a picture of us together and he put his arm around my shoulder like we were buddies and I said "thank you so much" and he said "do you have anything I can sign for you" and I had my comic book (spiderman) I had brought earlier and he actually laughed and said "I don't think I've ever signed a comic book before" and signed it for me and I went on my way after shaking his hand.

One of the best moments of my life. The best bit and I promise this is completely true, he was on the Graham Norton Show and they were talking about fan interactions and he said "I have a nice one" and he talked about meeting me, he obviously forgot my name, but that was nice to be called respectful on TV, he said, "I noticed them and thought, they are too nervous but turns out, he didn't want to intrude because he thought I was with family".

FUN INC's avatar

Thats awesome that he recalled you!

FUN INC's avatar

It is 100% situational.

I've met some mid-scale heavy metal bands on an individual basis and had a variety of successes / experiences.

I went to see down (Corrosion of Conformity, Pantera supergroup), and whilst Pepper Keenan (COC) was super cool (he gave me a guitar pick), Kirk from (crowbar) literally ran to avoid all the fans, and Phil Anselmo chose the slightly more passive approach - he went to a blacked out people carrier, and said he would come out and sign stuff, but then proceeded to sit in it for 20mins and ignore us!

Meeting Machine Head was arguable (alongside Metallica) the best experience - we hang out at the Brighton Concorde 2 (350 cap venue) for maybe 2 hours? - i chatted to Phil (Demmel) for an age - he was a super super cool guy. In fact the whole band was awesome - really really cool. This was around the time that they had gotten their new bassist Jared - who noone recognised as he had a specs on ... despite watching him on stage for 2 hours. I recognised him straight away, and i chatted to him for around 30mins. Super lovely bloke.

I've met a variety of other people - at signings and so on - Therapy were really awesome and friendly. Thirty Seconds To Mars were completely uninterested in anyone - no eye contact - i was actually pretty disappointed about that whole experience tbf. They were not bothered.

Meeting Metallica was an absolute highlight for me though. I met 3/4 of the band and was even on stage with them at leeds festival in 2015. This was around the time that James stopped doing meet and greets. I was a bit gutted about that tbf. But i think it was probably for the best though tbf. i really struggle under the circumstances.

I think the key thing for me is just be yourself. Don't put them on a pedestal - they are just people at the end of the day - i would rather chat to someone and get to know them that way.

With regards to whether to approach or not - i go back to my initial statement - it is really situational. I would err on the side of acknowledge, and then read the room. If you can't read the room, then don't go near!

Rixx Javix's avatar

I've been fortunate to have interacted with a lot of celebrities and famous people in my life and my career. That's me above (Dark hair tall guy) accepting an award from R. Lee Ermey in Seattle back in 2003. I once gave a presentation during which Evander Holyfield fell asleep, he still had the bandage on his ear from when Mike Tyson bit him. Marlon Jackson (Michael's brother) was also in that presentation and later that day I shook Jesse Jackson's hand.

All to say, it is entirely situational and contextual. Circumstances dictate how you should approach or make requests from famous people. Just like you would with anyone else frankly. Not only do they appreciate it, but it can also potentially lead to even more meaningful interactions. Famous people are just people, but everywhere they go they are always famous. And you are just another person in a long, never-ending line of people who recognize them. I always treated everyone I met with respect and professionalism - partly because it was my job. But also because it was the right thing to do. Most of them appreciated that respect.

I do however, sometimes regret not taking more photos or whatnot. But I have my memories. I made Michael Jackson laugh once. One time Mel Gibson bummed a cig from me and we sat quietly and had a smoke. I once knocked Roberto Benigni over in Times Square by accident. I have a hundred other stories but I'll save those for another time.

Point being - they're just people.

Sav's avatar

I've met quite a few celebs over the years through work, at events and even random encounters.

My favourite has to be Andy Serkis and I met him with an ex-friend at John Lewis on Oxford Street back in January 2019. He was with family but was so lovely and loved that we shared the same birthday and come from the same part of London.

I've also met Martin Freeman too but he was in a rush and still took a quick pic. That was in 2018 in Soho.

If people are with me we tend to bump into celebs a lot more than normal but it hasn't happened that much after the Pandemic.

JHenckes's avatar

I understand that often the artist isn't having a good day, or is fed up with spending so much time watching the fans. But I wouldn't stop approaching them, asking for an autograph or a photo! I think it's important to always understand the context, try to be as respectful as possible, not disturb meals, among other things, but to stop talking to someone I admire as an artist and/or person? Absolutely not!

Lanah Tyra's avatar

I think it totally depends on the situation. Just because they are in company, doesn't necessarily mean that they don't want to engage in a short chat or stop for a picture. I would definitely not disturb them if they are clearly in a hurry or busy with something.

Also if you follow the person on social media, you will see stories or pictures and have a general idea if they are approachable or not. Many big bands for example can't manage signing sessions on their arena shows due to there being too many people, so if you bump into them on the street, they are quite happy to stop and chat as they miss having that interaction with fans from smaller events.

When I lived in London I often saw celebrities catching a bus or walking their dogs. It was me who was in a hurry or being too tired after work, so I very rarely approached them, but I waved at Ewan McGregor once and he waved back at me :D

Probably my favourite encounter is from when I worked at the airport in Budapest. Tom Hiddleston (Loki from the Marvel movies to mention his biggest role) was filming there so I hoped I would spot him when he was flying back. And I did. Even though he had business class ticket he was standing in queue with the economy passengers, we were debating with my colleague if we should go and get him to the business check-in, but then we decided he seemed to be happy to wait so we didn't want to make a fuss. I saw him signing a boarding card for the check-in agent, yet I was still debating if I should go to him or not. Then when he went the wrong way to the gates, my colleague literally pushed me out from the office to and help him. So in the end it was him who approached me for direction and I told him I would gladly show the way, then asked if he would mind stopping at our office to sign my magazine. He said of course and spent a good 10 minutes by our counter signing stuff and chatting. I also got a picture with him there. I'm not working there anymore so it will be fine to share the photo. Then I walked him all the way to the business lounge and we chatted about his stay in Budapest how he liked the city and he asked me what was my favourite part of the city. I knew that he was a very nice person and happy to meet fans but to have such a lengthy conversation really exceeded all my expectations.

When a year later I came to see one of his plays in London, I went for the signing at backstage. He recognised me and asked me what was I doing here so far from home. I didn't want to tell him that I was just planning to come and see the play, which then turned into a one-way ticket and I was actually here with £400 in my pocket and my life packed into 2 bags XD

Horror and Cats's avatar

Absolutely not, and I would thank everyone to not approach me in public either lol

Philip's avatar

This topic has reminded me of a personal anecdote.

I used to work in the city next to a large hotel, my parents owned a business next door to it. I went in one Saturday for an hour and when I came out I saw a football team called the Bulldogs exiting their bus, it looked like they were checking into the hotel and there were quite a few fans hanging around. I was walking through the crowd when one of the football players asked if I wanted an autograph.

I was a bit surprised by this, smiled to the guy and said no thanks. I shook my head as I walked away.

15 minutes later I realised I was wearing a blue shirt, with a bulldog on it and the caption 'RUFF'. I must've looked exactly like a fan, but I had no idea at the time, I was just wearing a random shirt.

I'm sure the football player must've been quite confused by my behaviour.

Kane Carnifex's avatar

Simple, No.
There are no celebrities in my world.
This construct is so broken it must be from the USA.
The chance which the Character is shit and not equal to my experience is high.

Live Experience matters.

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